Your speech determines the rate of your evolution.
The effect, feeling, sound and meaning.
Nasty, harsh, don’t feel heard or respected makes them even nastier. All caps and bumper stickers. Two rights don’t nullify a wrong. Irretrievable
Learn to behave properly.
Kindness
But we are not talking about always being mushy, syrupy or self-compromising.
There is a wise time for well-placed timely stern speech.
Yet being stern rarely comes from a wise place.
How we speak to ourselves… we are after all “only human”. Be kind/forgiving to yourself as well.
Tired minds
You can justify anything with the intellect, and people do.
The ouch reflex. It does not take very many stings before a person is associated with discomfort when around them.
Feeling justified has nothing to do with it. Being right has nothing to do with it. Strive to say it sweetly.
Feeling hurt and hurting back –
Case studies: people you know…. Trump; Zelenskyy
Is there a proper time to show anger, harshness, sting?
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