The key to life is good orchestration. If you are not a good orchestrator, life will not work out so well for you.
All the pieces of the puzzle are right in front of you. Are you orchestrating them masterfully?
Imagine a world where all people are masterful orchestrators.
This is certainly valid on the surface of life, yet true orchestration happens at the depth of your being, not the surface. And it may not be how you think it should look, not only regarding others, but even for yourself.
Get the depth right, and the surface will take care of itself. Focus on the depth. No depth, no chance.
You cannot build a solid house with no foundation.